Goodbye, old grudges!

Goodbye, old grudges!
First of all, try not to lie to yourself. You can pretend that you don't react to the comments of your mother, who treats you like a little girl and constantly teaches you how to live. But resentment begins to accumulate inside you and if you do not express it, then after a while it will result in a scandal.
Now try to figure out why you're offended. Are you tired of your mom constantly teaching you and giving you advice? Prying into your personal life? Does this mean that she doesn't love or appreciate you? And when you get into trouble. Who are you running to cry to first? Of course, to my mother. At the same time, she listens to you and supports you in every possible way. Isn't this a manifestation of love and proof that she appreciates you!?
Most resentments arise when others do not behave the way you would like them to. You believe that you have grown up a long time ago and are able to make decisions on your own, and your mother does not necessarily have to interfere in your life. But is it possible to be offended by the care?
Try to understand the motives of the person who offended you. Psychologists recommend using the two-chair method. You need to sit on one chair and talk about the current situation on your own behalf. Then move to another chair and do the same thing only on behalf of the offender. This will help you understand, for example, that your mother's constant teaching and guidance is her way of showing you her concern and feeling needed. Offending you is not part of her plans at all.
Try to be honest with people who are close to you. Tell your mother that her constant moralizing offends and hurts you. After all, you've grown up a long time ago and you're very good at making decisions yourself.
Sometimes it hurts to the point of tears when you don't have time to react properly to an insult. For example, in a crowded transport, you were pushed and told: "Where are you going, cow?!". And instead of responding to the offender, you remained silent. When you get home, try to replay this situation in your head and come up with ten funny responses to this insult. You'll see, the offense will gradually be forgotten.
There are two techniques that will help you deal with past resentments.:
• express all your feelings in a letter, write everything you think about the abuser. And then just burn this piece of paper.;
• imagine your offense as a heavy stone (try to think about it in great detail: what size, color, shape it is), and then just get rid of it (throw it into the water, send it by mail to your abuser).
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